TANGERINE DREAMS

imageEven though their name, tangerine, conjures up images of bustling souks and Moorish architecture for me, these little mandarin oranges have been cultivated in China and Japan for more than 3,00 years. They got their name because Tangiers is the port they were shipped from, bound for Europe and America in the 1800’s.

It seems about that many years ago that I was a little kid. Since their prime season is in the winter, as children our Christmas stockings were always filled with candy canes, assorted nuts, coloring books, and tangerines. So, I associate them with Christmas.

And it was during the holidays this year that I found myself faced with a 5-pound bag of the little cuties – organic, no less – and wondering what on Earth to do with so many, when I struck gold!

Well, golden-orange. I found cakes made using many different types of citrus, and almond meal. Baking with almonds goes back hundreds of years, and I found recipes of Spanish, Middle-Eastern, and Italian origin.

imageI sought out the commonalities in each recipe, put them all together, and created my own delicious recipe. Where our food comes from, it’s provenance, has always been important to me. It’s something that was lost when our food started coming in boxes. The act of spending time making this cake brings the rich history of many different centuries and cultures right into my kitchen.

I’m making this one for a dear friend whose parents and brother are visiting her this weekend in her new home. This is truly a special occasion, and needs a special cake!

Next time you’re in town visiting, I’ll happily make one for us to share.  But, call ahead, it’s not available in a box yet!

XO Donna

P.S. – If you are interested in my recipe, please leave me a note in the comments and I will gladly share it with you. 


Molto Moto

Everyone came in to town last week from as far away as Florida and New Mexico for an opportunity to get together, celebrate, and to attend the MotoGP races. We were celebrating a friend who has accepted a teaching position in Little Rock, Arkansas. Besides being a gifted orthodontist, he also plays bass guitar “as a way to stay sharp,” and has become very good at it, even joining a band.

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On Thursday night the band played it’s last show together, with lots of friends and family in attendance, cruising Ladybird Lake in downtown Austin, and timing our return so that we could watch the bats fly out at sunset.

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Sunday was spent at COTA – The Circuit of the Americas track.  This was my first time there, and I was impressed with both the track’s size and it’s sophistication. MotoGP is the fastest motorcycle racing in the world.  Grand Prix motorcycles are “purpose-built,” solely to be raced on the track, often at speeds of 200+ mph for 18-21 laps, leaning over almost parallel to ground in turns with knees touching asphalt!

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MotoGP races take place in more than a dozen countries and on multiple continents. Riders from all over the world, along with their crew, all participate and it was fun to hear so many people speaking so many different languages as we walked around.

There were lots of tents with vendors who would sell you anything from a t-shirt to a shiny new motorcycle – which would you prefer – Moto Guzzi? Kawasaki?  Yamaha? They even let you try them for fit, so I couldn’t resist this Ducati that was just my size. image

What a weekend!

XO Donna

 


Stage Fright

I’m certain it’s just stage fright, nothing more. I’ve been working toward this day for more than two years, but if truth be told, it’s really closer to fifty years. My first book, Sick & Tired. . .and Sexy! Living Beautifully with Chronic Illness is finally finished and almost ready to go to the publisher.

I’m touching up the Introduction. I’ve finished the Table of Contents, the Resources, the back cover, and the Acknowledgements. Then I’ll need to know my final word count. And, of course I’m worried that I’ve forgotten someone important. Now I know why Oscar winners ramble on and on and on for fear of leaving someone critical to their success out. Like their husband, or wife, or the director.

imageRight now there is so much stuff cluttering my desk that I can’t find what I need, and I’m having a teeny-tiny panic-attack. All I can think about is having an Old Fashioned with a Luxardo cherry.

Maybe I should take more time and work on it for another month or two so it will be perfect. Or maybe it would be even better to just rewrite the whole thing? Aaarrggh!

Okay, I’m fine. I have to get back to it now. I’m pretty sure I’ll have good news for you next week. Wish me luck.

XO Donna

 


Even Better

I’ve been hard at work on my book, and looking forward to a great day. It began with meeting our friends for a brunch to celebrate my better half’s birthday. Our waitress noticed his Pacific Coast Highway t-shirt and began talking to him, she’s originally from L.A. and they talked about that drive up the coast. Realizing it was his birthday,  she brought him a gigantic, freshly made brownie with an enormous scoop of vanilla ice cream, and a fistful of spoons. That brownie was enjoyed by all!

copper cupFrom there, we rode out toward the hill country to Treaty Oak Distillery, where they are producing some of Texas’ finest spirits.  It’s a large piece of land, with picnic tables under shade trees and a little shop selling everything a mixologist needs. Another large building provides places to sit inside, have a cocktail and appetizers, and gab for a while.

We were sitting outside when I saw a helicopter touch down and people exiting. “What fun,” I thought, and went back to my conversation.  A few minutes later, the pilot came to our table and started talking to the guys. The next thing I knew, I was following the pilot back to the copter with my girlfriends!

Heli 1When I was little I used to imagine myself flying on a magic carpet over the nearby orchards, and this was that cool. When we took off it felt like the land fell away beneath us, and with a swoop to the side, we were gone.

We all wanted to see Hamilton Pool, a natural pool created when the dome of an underground river collapsed thousands of years ago.  People can swim there,  it has a beautiful grotto, and there were a few folks enjoying the water when we flew over.

Our reception upon landing, complete with photos and videos, had the three of us feeling like rock stars. That’s one more thing I wanted to do that I can check off my wish list: trains, planes, automobiles, sailboats, motorcycles, and now a helicopter.

I had the great time I was looking forward to, I’m pretty sure we all did.
Everything turned out even better than we had planned.

XO Donna

 

 


Hug a Farmer

imageDespite being a gypsy, sometimes you don’t have to go far to satisfy your travel-bug. It’s especially gratifying to find something new right in your own back yard.

We went to Springdale Farms last week, a few miles east of Austin. My friend Carla volunteers there. She also helps create some products that are sold there. I’ve never experienced any soap as luscious as the Rose Soap that she and Paula make and sell.

It pays to arrive pretty early for the best choice, since all of the farm-to-table chefs arrive at the crack of dawn. But there was still a wonderful selection of freshly-picked, and carefully cleaned produce, artfully arranged and waiting for us, even at our late hour.

imagePaula and Glenn Foore – the owners – were happy to chat with us, and have a delightfully free-range attitude toward guests; we were invited to wander their property, look at everything, and c’mon back with any questions.

Their fields were rich with winter crops. Flowers were blooming already.  There was even a shiny Avion, complete with striped curtains in the window and a lawn chair beside it’s door, parked adjacent to their farmhouse. Heaven.

Without a doubt, the biggest attraction at the farm are their plump, shiny, and exotic hens.  My Grampa had a flock on his farm, but they were scrawny, bedraggled, white chickens. Decidedly not the showgirls this bunch is.

They have a large grassy yard of their own, and we watched as one imageof the men working there took the time to shred some cabbage and broccoli leaves and give them to the hens along with some seed. When there are parties at the farm, the chefs feed leftover cooked vegetables to the hens, which they also love.

It was a memorable break from routine, and  I look forward to returning soon.  If there are farm stands where you live, I encourage you to go visit them. Meet the folks raising your food.  Buy yourself some fresh eggs, or a bunch of carrots or fresh onions.
That’s the way to hug a farmer!

P.S. –  I just found out that Springdale Farms is having an Open House on March 5th with guided tours and live music. They will also be part of the East Austin Urban Farm Tour on April 17th.  I’ll be there – and if you’re in town, come join me!

XO Donna

 


Healthy Hatred

imageI know. I know. That’s an oxymoron, isn’t it?

I heard this term used a couple of days ago referring to the rivalry between two college football teams. Rivalry, yes. Hatred?  Uh, no thank you. And to have the audacity to call hatred “healthy.”

To quote Bugs Bunny, “What a maroon.”

Hatred is never healthy, under any circumstances. Just look at all of the bad stuff that’s going on in the world. Every bit of it is brought to you courtesy of Hatred.Inc.

A long time ago, in therapy, I was challenged to pay attention to how many times a day I said that I “hated” something. It was just simple things, day-to-day stuff.

  • I hated country western music (remember, this was a long time ago)
  • I hated people tailgating me
  • I hated shrieking, out-of-control kids in restaurants
  • I hated it when people spit on sidewalks
  • I hated it when people threw their cigarettes from their cars
  • I hated it when people were texting/lap-topping/applying makeup while driving
  • I hated it when the neighbor let his dog bark all. night. long.
  • I hated it when (fill in the blank)

Her point was that I was doing a lot of hating for someone who wanted more love in her life. And that hatred (even though what I really meant was annoyed) wasn’t a healthy, or constructive, attitude. If you look for things to be annoyed about, you will find yourself mightily annoyed most of the time.

Humans tend to get angry when we are afraid. Rather than sit in that fear, we blame. Blame can lead to hate.  Just like we would with a puppy who wants to chew, or a persistent child who wants to play with an electrical outlet, we need to redirect our mind. Let’s focus on what’s working. Let’s appreciate all that we have. Let’s love the ones we love, and even the ones we don’t.

As my Mom used to say when I was being bratty, “You can catch a lot more flies with honey, Donna.”

I never understood why I’d want to catch flies – but I do understand the power of love to change a bad situation.

Let’s stop hating others based on their religion, their skin color, their sexual orientation, their politics, their income level, their education, or where they come from. Let’s save all of that energy for doing something constructive in our own life, and sharing it with the ones we love.

imageWhile I’m on the subject of love. . .even though I’m retired now, I’d sure love to fix Mr Trump’s hair.

Maybe a trim and a little honey to hold it place??

 

XO Donna

 


Disappearing Act

imageI’m referring to the KonMari method of organizing by Marie Kondo which has been all the rage in Japan for a while.  I heard of it a few months ago and bought and reviewed her book, “the life-changing magic of tidying up,”  but I chose to wait until after the holidays to tackle yet another project.

What I like best about her method is that she’s even more anal-retentive than I could ever imagine being. Did I say that?  I meant organized. And in her defense, her method WORKS and was FUN.

Her “rules” are legion, but mercifully simple:  Tidy by category, with goals. In my case, it was my cosmetics and toiletries today. Start by discarding everything at once, intensely and completely. Only keep things that spark joy for you.  Never pile things: you can’t see what you want, it takes up more space, and the iteams on the bottom feel neglected. Don’t change her rules to suit yourself. And she even has her own unique folding method.

Some of her concepts are based on Feng-Shui principles, and a few might be considered a little airy-fairy, but they make sense when  you think about them in a Ghost in the Machine way; things have feelings, too, showing respect and honor to what you have, and the idea that putting your house in order can benefit your life.

In my experience,  creating spaciousness of spirit, and environment, is a way of attracting love, money, opportunities, and vitality. Nature abhors a vacuum.

imageAs Marie Kondo says, “Your real life begins after putting your house in order.”

I began by (neatly) dumping all of my bathroom toiletries on the floor, as advised. If I didn’t love it or use it, into the trash it went! Then I found some containers and sorted by category: hair care, styling tools, medicines, skin care. Back they went – easy to see, to use, and to put back afterwards.

My sweetheart had been meaning to pare his closet further, so he placed all of his clothes on the bed, (not thrilled by the idea of dumping it all on the floor, like I was) and sorted into Keep, Donate, and Discard piles. Once the last two were in sacks, he re-hung the dress shirts, sorted his tees by color, then folded them using her method.

We were impressed by how many more he could fit in his dresser and the ease with which he could tell them apart.image No more digging for that v-neck.

For my next act, I will make all of the unloved stuff in my closet, the under-stairs storage, and our garage disappear. Abracadabra!

I think for the last two I may need an assistant standing-by with a pitcher of Martinis. I knew the job was dangerous when I took it.

XO Donna

 

 


Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful…

In just a few more hours, it will be a wonderful new year! How do I know that? Simple, I intend to make it that way.

Wonderful is a state of mind, just like being old: we can’t help but get older…but being old is about what’s going on between our ears. I just retired, having worked since I was 15. I’m both excited by all the possibilities ahead of me, and also a bit apprehensive.

What to do with my fear of the unknown??? Focus on my dreams, focus on what I will do to achieve them, and focus on everything that I am grateful for. An attitude of gratitude goes a long way toward making our lives wonderful!

Gratitude is the feeling I have for all of you. Thank you for reading and commenting all of the time. I wish you a happy, healthy, and sexy New Year.  Cheers!

XO Donna

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The Sandwich Optimization

I’ve always heard that if you have something bad to say, you should sandwich it between two nice things. I’ll do just that today.
These two things that would make excellent holiday gifts for any woman on your list. You are on your own list, aren’t you?

GOOD THING –  For weeks I have been hearing about a book by Marie Kondo:
“the life-changing magic of tidying up – the Japanese art of decluttering and organizing. ”
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This little baby (the book is only a bit over 5″ X 7″)  packs a powerful punch, as it’s track record attests: #1 New York Times Best Seller with 3 million copies sold in America!

On page 2 of her book, Ms. Kondo states confidently, “A dramatic reorganization of the home causes correspondingly dramatic changes in lifestyle and perspective. It is life transforming.”  

If clutter, lack of  storage, or a full closet but nothing to wear are challenges you or someone you know faces, buy this book. Even after our big down-size seven months ago I’m ready to do this and be surrounded only by things I love that thrill me.

BAD THING – I felt like a kid on Christmas Eve when I found out that the fourth book of The Millennium Trilogy (The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, The Girl Who Played with Fire, The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet’s Nest) had been released.

imageI knew there had been rumors of an unfinished book when Steig Larsson died. Being an avid fan, I ordered The Girl in the Spider’s Web and began reading it the moment it arrived on my doorstep.

I had not read any reviews (my bad) and I had assumed a lot of things. First, that the writer would be at least close to Mr. Larsson’s caliber. Second, they’d use the same translator. And third, someone who speaks English would have read the damned thing. I should have suspected something when all of the praise on the book jacket was for the other books.

The book is poorly written, and the sentence structure is awkward due to the poor translation. I tried to hang in there, really.  As far as I’m concerned, The Girl in the Spider’s Web should instead be The Girl in the Trashcan.

imageGOOD THING – For a small inspiring gift, give someone The#Truthbomb App for their phone. For a grander gift, order them the #Truthbomb Card Deck from www.daniellelaporte.com.
I love her daily messages, they’re always just what I need. As she says, “Just one sentence can change your mind, break open your heart, soothe your soul, or hit you like a #TRUTHBOMB.”

Now, how sexy is that!

 

XO Donna

 


Happy Turkey Day!

I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving: I hope you had delicious food, delightful company, lots of laughter, and ended up with both a full belly and a full heart!

I got to watch  the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade, then had to get to work in the kitchen.

imageThe day was a beautiful blur, but I couldn’t Let it pass by without letting you know that I’m so very thankful for each and every one of you!

 

XO Donna