Good Things

Oh, gosh, I’ve been thinking of changing the name of my blog… or something.

The renewal for both my domain name (Sexy Past 60) and for WordPress – they host my blog – have come due and I seriously thought about not renewing either of them. I’m way past 60. And not feeling very sexy, and I haven’t written anything in months. Why not drop them and save the worry, and a couple hundred dollars?
Upon discussion with my sweetie, he convinced me to keep it another year and see what happens. I might feel like writing again soon. Inspiration could strike…

To use a British expression, I feel that I’ve “been made redundant.” I no longer need to give advice on hair, makeup, or clothing styles because it can easily be found anywhere these days with a quick computer search. There’s even technology where you can try-on a haircut, makeup, and even clothing before you buy them. Online, of course. But really, that is only part of the reason I haven’t been writing.

The truth is, I haven’t been writing because I’ve had a spectacularly lousy last couple of months.

Define lousy, you say. I had 4 emergency room visits to two different hospitals, another “stroke-like” event which turned out not to be a stroke, and a 5-day hospital stay… all in one month.
I’m on a first name basis with a couple of E.R. docs and nurses now. I’ve been CT’d, MRI’d, radio-activated, stress-tested and spinal tapped.

And that was before I went to MD Anderson Cancer in Houston for a week.


In my book, Sick and Tired & Sexy… Living Beautifully with Chronic Illness, I focused on the auto-immune illnesses I live with, since so many other women have them, too. What was helping me would probably help them also.

I didn’t include the rare bone-marrow disorder I’ve had since 1998. My body produces way too many platelets – the opposite of Leukemia. I’ve been on meds that have kept it well-controlled forever. It was just something humming in the background which would occasionally remind me of its presence with an astonishingly psychedelic migraine.

Suddenly, it was not under control and causing me a lot of seemingly unrelated problems.

By going to MD Anderson, I have an updated diagnosis, and a brand new treatment plan going forward. It’s a week, today, since I started a new drug, Jakafi, and other than feeling a bit dizzy, I’m doing very well. Better living through modern chemistry, indeed!

Two other good things that have made my life much better have been mail-order subscription services.

The first is with Brodo, which means “broth” in Italian. It’s delicious bone-broth which is low-sodium and high-flavor. It has as much protein as an egg in each one-cup serving. And look at the cute cups they sent me as a gift with my second order!
I struggle to get enough protein since I dislike eggs in the morning, and I can’t eat dairy products. A cup of steamy broth and a gluten-free goodie works just fine for me. I order both individual serving packs in my fave flavor (Tuscan Sun) and a few bigger (3-cup) packages to use a base for other meals. It’s been a game-changer for me to have them in my pantry.

* I am not receiving compensation of any kind for sharing these great products. They’ve become staples, and I am just passing along the deliciousness.

The other subscription is to Wildgrain – a bakery service where I can order gluten-free sourdough breads, delicious “Everything” bagels (my favorites) below, and other goodies that make my wheat-free, dairy-free, low-sodium life much easier. With cold weather on its way, I’m all set. Soup!

Doesn’t that bagel look delish? It’s a bit less chewy than a wheat flour bagel, but it’s certainly a tasty substitute. I’ve even found a non-dairy cream cheese by Kite Hill that has a creamy texture and a tangy flavor. I’m thrilled!

And I have more good things to look forward to: Halloween and Dia de Los Muertos are both this week. They are my favorite holidays! I need to pick up some pumpkins today and put them in the yard with my black cat cut-outs. We love to decorate, even though we don’t have trick-or-treaters in our neighborhood, sadly.

The other good thing is my birthday, next week. I usually don’t make a fuss over it, but this year I’m going to. I’m going to be 74… and I’m very grateful to be here to celebrate it!

I’m going to buy myself some new baking pans and cookie sheets at Sur la Table. (Since I’m still studying French, I now know that means “on the table.”) Which I where I’m going to park a small decadent chocolate cake that I’m making for myself.

Pictures in the next post, promise.

Wishing you all good things, thanks for being here!
XO. Donna

19 thoughts on “Good Things

  1. Leisa Davis's avatar Leisa Davis

    Donna you are an amazing woman! I’m sorry to hear that you’ve been going through these difficulties. Your poise in the trying times is inspiring. And your birthday!! I have been missing our birthday lunch/dinners. I’m gonna carve out some time to come visit you. Taking care of grands and MIL (who turned 100) will just have to be put on hold. Never give up your handle! XOXO

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    • Leeser!!! I am so happy to hear from you, and I thank you for your compliments. Always welcomed. I am changing oncologists and will be driving down to Ben White Blvd again, we can make a plan to meet out that way. I still remember your beautiful birthday party on the hilltop – love you dearly!
      XO Donner

  2. Hi Donna!
    I’m so glad to read this news. Hoping your new found broth and those yummy bagels will get your body back on track. Happy Birthday to you! 🎉🎂😘
    I’m one year behind you and a Scorpio as well.
    XO

    Nikki

  3. I could literally take your post, make a couple of minor changes, and post it myself. 

    I too am contemplating the fees, etc., associated with my blog and websites through WordPress, GoDaddy and Mailchimp. I too have had a semi-lousy year, depending on perspective. I was diagnosed with ALS last November. Talk about a kick in the ass. I WISH there was chemo for it. There is nothing…that works. Fortunately, I have a supposedly slow progressing form that at least for now, take only my ability to speak and eat, two things I enjoy the hell out of! On the positive, I found Christ! Where has he been all my life! That makes all the difference and brings to mind, “I’m in His hands.” And we are. 

  4. brendaladd78704's avatar brendaladd78704

    Hello sweet amiga. GOOD to hear from you!!!! Keep the name… we all know and love you by it.

    I can never respond to your newsletter (don’t know why) – hence the message

    I admire your tenacity, honesty, humor, insights, and gratitude. All part of the Donna package.

    I’m sorry you have health struggles.

    Happy almost birthday!

    Hey – did you receive my newsletter? xoxoxo brenda ladd

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    • Darling Ms. B – Thank you for making the time to say “Hi,” and cheer me on. I appreciate you and our long friendship! Yes, I got your gorgeous newsletter, your work “contains multitudes…” you always blow me away!
      XO Donna

  5. I’m glad you didn’t let the blog drop—you clearly still have things to say! I think especially if you don’t constrain yourself to a specific type of topic, you might find that you have plenty you want to post about…

  6. stevehinds@aol.com's avatar stevehinds@aol.com

    Hey Donna! I’m so sorry to hear about your recent problems. I do hope the new meds help regulate things. Ain’t it grand getting old? (short answer – no, but it still beats the alternative for now). I’m also glad you decided to keep the sites and keep writing. I’ve enjoyed all of your posts over the years, you write beautifully and I do enjoy your topics. I probably don’t meet the “sexy” criteria, yes on the over 60 side (68 this year) and yes on the autoimmune, though my Hashimoto’s hasn’t changed much in 20 years. Life otherwise isn’t bad. I’m going bald, losing my hearing and fighting hard to keep the grouchy old man syndrome at bay. Four grandchildren and a fifth on the way remind me of the pros and cons of youth. Maureen and I haven’t killed each other yet – cop shows remind us that technology for solving crimes is pretty bad ass. I did begin to do some serious therapy work this year. Ends up I’m way more fucked up than I thought! The good side is that I’m learning new things and am feeling much better. We’re headed to Portugal in December to visit Jared and his family, then back for the birth of Justin’s third son late in December.  It sounds like you and Turk continue to maintain your wonderful relationship. He’s a lucky man and I’m so happy you continue to make it work. Hang in there girl, you deserve all the good things that come your way and your life experiences give you the ability to handle the challenging ones.  Happy Halloween! Steve

    • So nice to hear from you, Steve, you lifted my spirits so much! And made me laugh…. Criminology has made some big advances that give a normal person a good think. Therapy is great, I love my therapist… and you should congratulate yourself for going – it’s only the really effed-up people who think they don’t need therapy! I’ll bet a bunch of Grands would make all the holidays chaotic and fun – enjoy that! So happy to know you’re “out there!” XO Donna O’Klock ‘Sick and Tired & Sexy, Living Beautifully with Chronic Illness’ @ Amazon

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  7. LA CONTESSA's avatar LA CONTESSA

    Once again I cannot comment because it is not taking my PASSWORD for WORDPRESS! Honest to GOD I have it written right here on paper!

    Anyway my comment was YOU SOUND LIKE ME! The mail-order GF bread sounds WONDERFUL! I have found a new one to me at market that is not frozen but it lasts for months?? How can that be?With zero preservatives? HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Send me your phone number and the day and I will call YOU!!! WE MUST KEEP HUMOROUS ABOUT THIS HEALTH STUFF………………it is tuff I KNOW! XXX ELIZABETH THEVINTAGECONTESSA.blog

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    • I have the same kind of problems with WordPress – and struggle to fix them – one of the reasons I thought not to renew. I’m sure I replied to your sweet comment, but can’t find that it went thru, so you will probably get multiples! LOL Yes, we do sound like twins, dont we? At least you got to look gorgeous against that Italian backdrop. Your trip looked wonderful and you looked gorgeous! Wildgrain GF breads ARE wonderful – and available. I love the ease – and my sweetie enjoy them too. Their Rosemary Sourdough, with it’s crunchy crust is a miracle!
      Thank you for the Birthday wishes (Nov. 6th) Elizabeth!
      XO Donna

  8. brendaladd78704's avatar brendaladd78704

    Noticed your bday is coming up! hope you celebrate in your unique and distinctive style, Donna.

    Your address still 308 Salado Creek Ln in G-town?

    Big smile, Brenda

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