THIRD ACT

How are we almost to the half-way point of July? You’d think being retired that my days would drag by… but they don’t and every once in a while I take a day to lie about, recuperate, and do nothing.

Well, no I don’t, not really. On a day where there’s nothing I absolutely must do, I’ll try out a complicated new wheat-free recipe like these amazing (and I don’t say this lightly) Lemon Raspberry Bars. The woman who developed this recipe and many others, Katarina Cermelj, has revolutionized gluten-free baking! I’ve had to avoid wheat for more than 12 years now. I got used to the way GF baking was different, and limited myself to the few things that were good even though they were wheat-free.

These GF beauties have a lemon-zest shortbread base, a layer of seedless raspberry jam which keeps the cookie base crisp, and atop that are fresh raspberries with a crumb topping. They are wheat-free, egg-free, and scrumptious. You can find them here: theloopywhisk.com
Even before I baked these, I knew Katarina was on to something and I immediately ordered her book. She is a food scientist and a recipe developer and all of her bakes are beautifully photographed. My bake came out just as beautiful as hers, and more delicious than I ever could have imagined! I’m gonna do it again, very soon, I’ve got another jar of raspberry jam and a pint of berries in the fridge.

Another new-to-me thing I’ve been doing is listening to podcasts. Julia Louis-Dreyfus has a delightful one where she interviews women older than her – she calls it “getting schooled by women older and wiser than herself,” and it’s appropriately called “Wiser Than Me.” I have found every single one of her interviews to be informative, thoughtful and entertaining, but I especially liked her conversations with Isabel Allende and Diane von Furstenberg – talk about wise women!
I really appreciated DVF’s attitude toward aging; she believes aging is living and eschews the word. “It’s a privilege, and we should change the question from “how old are you” to “how long have you lived?” I liked that, there is so much more to the question, it’s not just a dead-end. Check it out and let me know which are your favorites.

Forgive me if I am repeating myself, but during the pandemic I decided to brush-up on my Spanish using the Duolingo online app and website. I thought it would lend some structure to my day and help me meet my goal of being able to speak well again. I studied Spanish all through high school and for many years afterward I could speak and read quite well. I remember reading One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez in Spanish with my friend Debbie, and a Spanish dictionary, in the early 1980s. Slowly, and sadly, much of my grasp of the language has slipped away. I’ve taken conversational classes here and there, but nothing consistent until the pandemic began.

I am now on day 701. Yep. Seven hundred and one days of consistently reading, writing and learning vocabulary. Unfortunately, what I haven’t done is speak, except to myself. (There’s only so much my sweetie is willing to listen to in a language he doesn’t understand.) Fortunately, there is an International Languages Club here in Sun City. They offer Spanish, French, Italian, German, Russian, Polish and quite a few others. The courses are offered at all levels and there are intensive grammar classes in between sessions so you can dive deeper. Imma stay up here in the shallow end of the pool for now, but I am very excited to begin when the next session starts a couple weeks from now in August!

Speaking of pools… I going to grab my towel and sunscreen and head over to the pool for a swim now that I’ve done everything on my to-do list. I’m finally getting the hang of being retired!

I hope you are stying cool and you and yours are doing well. Thank you for reading, and if you ever have questions, please feel free to comment and ask.

Thank you for reading,
XO Donna

11 thoughts on “THIRD ACT

  1. Janelle

    Those raspberry bars look delicious, love the lemon shortbread base. I’m afraid it’s so hot here that I can’t get motivated to do much. All that’s getting done around here is watering the flower pots and taking the dog to the park. Could really use some rain, too.

    • Donna O'Klock

      Hi Janelle! They taste even better than they look, truly greater than the sum of the parts. And it was such a treat for me to have something this delicious that I could eat! I hear you, the heat is oppressive, “I just wish that it would rain, rain, rain.”
      Stay cool, woman! XO

    • Donna O'Klock

      Hello sweetie – I wish you were here to share some! Don’t think I could bring one to MX with me… or can I? LOL. Let’s talk soon, think of you all the time. XO

    • Donna O'klock

      Thank you, Jillian, it was. Wished you’d been here to share it and a cuppa! Maybe I’ll figure out a way to bring one to MX! I hope you are absolutely loving your new home!

  2. I just stumbled upon you thru reading 1010 Park Place. Can you tell me about the plate you have the raspberry bars on. I think I have the same collection of my mother’s. “Woodrose”. I was told it was Noritake (her engagement china). Then you mentioned the Podcast with Julia.. My husband worked for DVF for years. LOVE when “winks” happen ! Have a good day ! p.

    • Good morning, Patti – speaking of “Winks,” I was reading Brenda’s latest blogpost just now!
      The china is from my sweetie’s Mom – it is called “Daphne,” by Noritake. I was a bright Fiestaware gal, but I’ve slowly grown to love these dishes and we use them nightly. DVF sounded like a compassionate, if strict, woman – I hope it was exciting to work for her! If you make the raspberry bars, send me a photo on your plates, please? So nice to meet you! XO

      • patricia nisenholz

        So interesting about our plates. Clearly there are two almost identical patterns. They are MY fav! DVF was interesting for sure. I cherish a piece of her jewerly she gifted me. Her attitude about becoming older ~ agesim ~ is one I try to model.

      • Yes, her attitude is one I will strive to embrace… we are so fortunate to live here; easy to take lots for granted that others don’t. She is a great role model. How wonderful that you have that connection, Patricia.
        XO Donna

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